14,000 miles

200 friends

48 days

one car

one life

Day 42: Cash Money, Part I

Figuring out how to handle the money thing is one of the biggest decisions Chris and I will have to make before we attach the ball and chain. Not surprisingly, most of the couples we’ve met up with have combined all of their duckets, preferring to work on a budget and all that shizat as a team. And while I don’t disdain this approach, I must say it’s not where we’re [...]

Day 39: Aspen, Ho!

We’ve suffered. Oh, how we’ve suffered on the Wedding Road Trip. Forced to eat great meals and to explore interesting cities. The ultimate indignity? “Having” to stop in Aspen, Colorado to see Chris and Krystal, friends of mine from grad school.

Obviously I jest, but we did have a few moments of terror on the way [...]

Day 36: Dr. Jillian

There may be no one cooler in my world than my younger brother Greg. I’ve always admired his entrepreneurial spirit, easygoing demeanor, and extensive group of incredible friends. Thankfully, Greg and his wife Melissa are not selfish either, which means I’ve had the privilege of getting to know their friends on a personal level, making [...]

O Chicago

After a morning of road construction, golden retriever puppies, and the great Dave Davis, we pulled into Oak Park,  Chicago, for the much anticipated reunion with our friends Olivia and Jafer and their three-month-old daughter Camilla.  I say reunion because they moved away from San Francisco in January and haven’t looked back.

For our Bay Area [...]

Knowing Me, Knowing U

Most of the people we’ve visited on this trip have been married, with a few dating situations and the occasional divorce, but no one else has been in that odd limbo known as “being engaged.” It’s a fun time, but dominated by people asking about your wedding (when is it? why is it there? why [...]

You Are Who You Raise

I’m going to sound like I’m repeating myself, but once again we went to visit my cousins. (In case you’re wondering, I have seven cousins on my mom’s side of the family, so that’s why they keep cropping up on the Wedding Road Trip.) This one (we’ll call him Josh) lives outside of Boston with his wife Kris, son Alexander, and [...]

Secrets of Jersey

After dinner, we returned to James and Wendy’s place for the interrogation. I mean, interview. They met in a coffee shop outside Detroit and 8 months later were married, and have been together for a good six years plus. The lesson – sometimes you just need to go for something and make it work. They had a few other insights as [...]